Laura was the first real friend that I ever made in the spoonie/still's/arthritis community. She helped me to feel more confident and comfortable about sharing my own stories with others and seeking the correct kind of care for me. She and I got engaged pretty close to each other this year, though she got a ring first. When she found out I was also engaged, a change happened in our relationship. Instead of focusing on pain and meds, we started talking about dresses and ceremony locations. Our lives have mirrored each other most of the time I have known her, and I have been changed for good for having her in my life the short time she was there. She has fought so hard for so long and will always be an inspiration to me. Laura, I love you. I miss you, not just out of selfishness for me but for all those you left behind. We will miss your guidance, your humor, and your amazing tenacity. I am just so grateful that you no longer have pain.